↳ INFJ (The Counselor)
INFJs often appear quiet, caring and sensitive, and may be found listening attentively to someone else’s ideas or concerns. They are highly perceptive about people and want to help others achieve understanding. INFJs are not afraid of complex personal problems; in fact, they are quite complex themselves, and have a rich inner life that few are privy to. They reflect at length on issues of ethics, and feel things deeply. Because Counselors initially appear so gentle and reserved, they may surprise others with their intensity when one of their values is threatened or called into question. Their calm exterior belies the complexity of their inner worlds.
Because INFJs are such complex people, they may be reluctant to engage with others who might not understand or appreciate them, and can thus be hard to get to know. Although they want to get along with others and support them in their goals, they are fiercely loyal to their own system of values and will not follow others down a path that does not feel authentic to them. When they sense that their values are not being respected, or when their intuition tells them that someone’s intentions are not pure, they are likely to withdraw.
- least common type in the population
- among highest of all types in college GPA
- among most likely to stay in college
- most likely of all types to cope with stress by seeing a therapist
- highest of all types in marital dissatisfaction
- personal values include spirituality, learning, and community service
- commonly found in careers in religion, counseling, teaching, and the arts
- famous infjs: gandhi, carl jung, eleanor roosevelt, and emily bronte
My Neighbors the Yamadas (1999)
Who are your top 4 bias & what about them FIRST caught your attention?
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in no particular order because why not
⬇︎ ray of sunshine. he makes smile and flip shits
⬇︎ it’s impossible to not love him. you feel me
⬇︎ he was literally dying at that time… what to do…
⬇︎ plain sass. he eats nachos in cinemas, guess my long lost twin
I loved how quiet this scene was. Because basically everything about it is so fucked up - that he can only sleep in a bathroom, the reason why (hiding in the outhouse waste made him feel safe from his abuser as a kid? So now as a thirty-something yuppie writer he can only sleep in a bathroom? That is so fucked up, I have no words), the fact that he’s managed to have a fairly successful life despite that and just and that GHJ knows and deals with it in a very matter-of-fact way…you know a normal kdrama would pull out the violin but not this quirky, weird, amazing story…
EXO K - First Snow (korean ver.) one minute preview
Miracles in December track list minimalist poster